sapphoq shares her memories and parts of her life before and after her traumatic brain injury.
Tuesday, December 04, 2012
Are You Sure: or: Monothematic Delusion
Scene: I am visiting Dad at the assisted living place. He has dementia. I have made out his Christmas cards. All he has to do is print his name. I give Dad a notebook to use as a firm surface to write on.
me: Here ya' go Dad.
Dad opens the notebook and begins to sort through it.
Dad: Oh, I know I have to do something with this but I forgot what.
Dad looks in an envelope.
Dad: Oh, that's the doctor's bill. I'm not paying it. Not even five bucks. I have to take care of Christmas. Maybe the bank will give me a small business loan.
me: Here's the first card Dad. It's for your nephew and his wife.
Dad: We sent one to my sister and her family.
me: Your nephew is grown. So he gets his own family card now.
Dad: Oh.
Dad picks up the pen.
Dad: This is a nice pen.
Dad: How should I sign this one?
We go through the same process for all seven cards.
Forty five minutes later.
me: We're all done! You did good.
Dad: What's those things you have on the envelopes?
me: Stamps. They're stamps.
Dad: They don't look like stamps. Are you sure?
me: I got them from the post office Dad. They don't say how much the postage is is all.
Dad: They look smaller than stamps.
me: Really Dad, they are stamps.
Dad shakes his head.
Dad: We'll see if any of the mail comes back.
Dementia. Such a wonderful drug.
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